Good for you for taking the plunge and for running into one of the most adorably maddening animals on the earth. Before you jump in with both feet into such an adventure, learn this: it isn’t all Instagram-worthy moments and puppy kisses. Well, there is quite a good deal of it, a rather fair amount of mess, and at times, great mid-life questioning of choices in life as you clean up after especially messy potty accidents. But don’t worry; the guide in front of you is going to take you through what’s in store within your puffy family. Spoiler alert-not just cuddles and kisses (though there are quite a lot of those, too; don’t worry).
Ready? But wait, are you sure you know everything that is to know before you bring a puppy home?
Puppy Adjustment Stage: “Why Is My Puppy Avoiding Me?” Stage
You bring home your cute little furball, thinking you’ll be cuddling on the couch within hours. Instead, your puppy heads straight for the kitchen and curls up in a corner. Wait, what? Where’s the snuggles? Welcome to puppy depression (yours, not theirs). Don’t freak out! They’re just adjusting to their new world.

However, when bringing a puppy home; it will feel nervous and confused. As indicated by research from the Journal of Veterinary Behavior, puppies require some time to become accustomed to their new environment and family.
It is all trust and patience. Give it a few days (or weeks for some puppies), and soon they’ll be climbing into your lap like they’ve known you for years. Or, you know, they’ll ignore you for the next hour.
Training Takes Time and Patience (and Possibly Wine)
To be honest, teaching a puppy anything is similar to training a toddler to read Shakespeare; there will be a lot of wailing, uncertainty, and occasional flashes of insight. It will require patience, persistence, and a lot of peaceful energy. Sure, your puppy might be rolling in the mud one second and then peeing on the carpet the next, but with patience and treats, they’ll eventually get it.

Training is to build up a very strong tether for your puppy. And the more time, love, and attentiveness you give, the more you’ll see that Shakespearean genius coming through.
If you feel overwhelmed, look for puppy training or enrol in a dog training school to ensure a smooth journey.
Feeding Frenzy: Because Puppies Are Always Hungry
Unless you want a puppy whose entire life revolves around a buffet mentality, forget free free-feeding bowl of food set out all day. No, it won’t be like your puppy eats only when hungry; he will eat as if it’s the last meal on Earth. You will be feeding him four times a day, followed by an obligatory potty break after each meal. Yep, get ready for a cycle of feed, potty, repeat. It is like having a little hairy garbage disposal that burps up feces all the time.
Say No to Human Food: No amount of begging is too much for those puppy eyes heaven should resist; no, human food can be dangerous to dogs.
Feeding a puppy is not about letting that limitless voracity be fully satisfied, but rather about developing healthy lifestyle habits. Consider it training for both of you: learning for the puppy is “when and what to eat,” while the puppy learns how to live with a food-obsessed furry tornado.
Walking a Puppy: Your New Full-Time Job
To puppies, exercise equals the notion, “Take your butt out every three or four hours for a walk, rain or shine.” So, a puppy probably won’t do it if you’re working 9 to 5 unless you’re planning on getting a dog walker or secretly wishing for a personal dog sitter. And let’s not forget how awkward it is when your puppy tries to make new friends with every dog in sight, leading to a tangled leash, a tug-of-war situation, and maybe a doggy fight you didn’t sign up for.

Walking your puppy is devoted time, and it is part of cuteness and pure chaos. With patience and preparation, you will both enjoy the open even hitting daily step goals in the process! Search for a dog walker near your area or dog walking services if you’re unable to meet their needs due to a busy schedule.
Grooming: Mud + Puppy = Endless Bath Time
Puppies get dirty. Like, dirty. And when they get dirty, they don’t just run through a puddle. No, they roll in it. They lie in it. They think it’s their new favourite thing. And then they’ll stare at you like, “What? I’m not the problem.” When it’s bath time, brace yourself for the ultimate showdown—your puppy doesn’t want to be bathed, but you’ll win (probably). Pro tip: use dog-safe grooming products, because human shampoo? Bad idea.

Grooming is not less of a chore but more of a bonding session perhaps, it doesn’t quite feel that way when your puppy splashes water over you every time during their third mud-covered escapade of the week. But remember, a clean pup is a happy (and less smelly) pup!
Search for pet grooming services nearby in your local area or try dog grooming at home for a more personalized experience.
Crate Training is not as bad as it Sounds
Firstly and foremost, crate training is not just a means of salvation for your home at times when you are away from your pet. The crate is the happy place for them. The crate is, unflatteringly put, the doggy den. Think of it as their retreat. You’ll find that your puppy might prefer the crate to your bed. Yep, that’s right—they’ll go in willingly and settle in for a nap while you wonder if they love their crate more than you.
Why Crates Are Amazing:
What makes crate training a success?
Your puppy will soon not just accept it as home but love it. And when they sleep curled up in their crate snoozing like a little angel, you might even get a moment to relax because crate training is not just good for them but for you too.
From research published in The Journal of Applied Animal Welfare Science: Both puppies and their parents will enthusiastically benefit from crate training. Caged puppies acquire housebreaking training, boost their security perceptions, and minimize anxiety through cage training.
Drooling and Expenses: The Less-than-glorious Realities.
If you’re getting a big breed, you better brace yourself for the drool. It’s like having a permanent water feature in your house. Drool everywhere: your clothes, your furniture, your food. It’s a whole vibe. And let’s not forget the costs. Having a baby puppy is expensive lot more than what you pay for adoption. There are so many vet visits, vaccinations, and other miscellaneous bills. If you’re short on budget, plan well ahead.

Think Ahead:
A puppy is rewarding in many ways, but drooling and cost are also its companions. With a little preparation (and a lot of patience) you’ll laugh it off and make the most of it with your slobbery new friend.
The above bar charts illustrate how the average initial costs differ in bringing a puppy home across the different categories: Adoption fee Vet bills (Vaccines & checkups) Food (monthly basis) Toys and accessories Training This information gives potential puppy owners an idea of the expenses involved, apart from the adoption fee.
Altogether, each of these costs makes up the complete financial picture of having a puppy as a family member.
Source data: https://www.americanpetproducts.org
Final Thoughts:
It probably could be one of the most gratifying yet awful decisions that can be made- this is literally all about getting a puppy. It requires extensive learning about house training and puppy-proofing the home and involves a lifetime commitment. But once you withstand all the mess and drool included in between, this puppy will indeed be one huge source of love, laughter, and perhaps companionship for your life.
Are you ever really going to be prepared for this? Just remember: every time you get that picture on Instagram of the two of you snuggling, there will be muddy paw prints on the couch and frantic runs to the door at 2 a.m. But really, that’s why you do it, right? unconditional love.
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